-Strength and Honor-

Anecdotal evidence from your own life regarding divorce isn’t the “proof” you think it is that everything is fair with the system. Men are VERY often hammered in divorce courts. …Plain & simple. Amicable divorces do happen sometimes, but the point is that the system is set up in such a way that if a female wanted to be vindictive & milk the man dry, she could do so very easily. …& many do exactly that.

You also talk of women working, having babies AND doing the housework. …OK, fair enough. These types exist & you know what? They’re usually pissed off because the women next door doesn’t have to work & she does. (Well except those that have been brainwashed by feminism into believing you need to have a job to be a “real” woman.) …So the burden falls on her husband to make more money so she can have what her friends & neighbors have. …Pile the stress & burden on the man & sit back in your cosy chair & wait for him to get home so you can complain he doesn’t do enough housework.

You seem to be “confused” that men would have issues with some things feminism has done to them.

Do you think men have anything to be upset about when it comes to feminism?

1. Be with one who has learnt the value of money. That means one who earns as much as you or who is financially independent. Of course, as studies may show that ‘career women’ are more likely to put their career before their man/family, you need to filter out bona fide ‘career girls’ from those who priortise personal life over family life. Or, find a ‘career girl’ and be just as supporting of her career as she is of yours. If she loves you and sees that you love her and support her, a woman will generally sacrifice her career in return. Force her to though and you are looking at trouble.

2. Don’t get married until you are in your thirties. Seriously. You won’t know yourself nor your power truly, until then.

Good luck.

You also can’t really say that you are happy for women to be alone and have cats rather than children because this then means that men will also be alone..plus the species would die out.

I guess what you are saying is that you want to get married, have children but that the risk seems too great and you are angry about that?

The thing to remember is that life is full of risks, ’tis the nature of it.

If laws are as discriminatory as you say they are in your state, then that is unfortunate. It does not necessarily follow though, that from that, if you marry a woman and she divorces you, she will automatically rob you blind. This is my issue with mabtw and the position of many men on the site.

Whether a man gets taken to the cleaners really depends on the woman and how acrimonious a divorce is.

From personal experience, I know that my mother could have taken my father to the cleaners after their divorce. Rather though, he did the gentlemanly thing and gave her the house, there was no division of assets. He walked away to start again from scratch. Due to that act, there was no funding of lawyers and my mother allowed him not to pay maintenance for myself and our siblings. I therefore resent it when I read that men think that all women are evil and will bankrupt a man if they possibly can. It is simply untrue.

Enjoy your cats means, you’re not worth the trouble and no one will want your company but you cats.
It has nothing to do with jobs.

Any man in his right mind won’t want the average woman today.

A woman can get with a guy that has money, and leave him, just take all of it away without reason. Thats is what im angry at. Im angry at our society catering to women who dont do anything but ruin the lives of hardworking men.

I can see why women would complain about this state of affairs but it makes no sense for men to.

The last sentence is directly literal. In the old days, we married for reproduction, as it was the natural thing to do. Now that women rip us apart, we dont have to do that, and because of it, they now have to take care of the house, the cleaning, AND hold a job to support themselves.

good job ladies. You won the battle, and you lost the war.

I am confused.